and life interrupts yet again

Been a bit sidetracked this week, with blogging and my requirements. Got hit with the metaphorical 2x4 again; my youngest daughter has mentioned in the past, she'd like to live with her dad sometime and this long weekend, he took the first steps to see it happen. In a way, it blindsided me, but also not. We had discussed this before. Its not that it wouldnt be ok....I guess....He lives in BC, 8hrs away. So, different school, hard grade to move into, what about her sister, so far away ....and I thought it was hard before I got separated! So much to think about, to make sure of, to plan.If it happens, it will be for next fall, so I do have time. But.. she's my baby. And its hard, so hard, to let go.