Goals

I'm so glad so many of us have been posting our goals; my lament for last years team was that so few had posted, I didnt have much to guide me when I tried to make my own.My goals:
50 000 situps and pushups
1000 rounds cane form
500 hrs of kungfu
25 000 mixed kicks
400 hrs of horse stance (Note: I messed up with those numbers!!! but since we need some goals in the stars...)
Read 20 books
Paint or draw a large picture of a dragon
achieve my paddling certification
work my way through a daily gratitude meditation book....and finish it this time
25 dates with Sean(no kids)
1750 servings of fruit/veg
no more thatn 1100 servings of bread/grain products
Goals that I meant to include, but forgot, so I'm doing them anyways;
500 3 min rounds of sparring
1000 acts of random kindness

I know I will really need my teams help with the sparring one; I admit I HATE sparring, which is one of the reasons I included it. It could be a women thing, but whatever it is, I hope I can count on my teams help to get past this, and learn to enjoy it. Feel free to come make me spar in open training!!
Besides all this, I have been reading a book called 'Tuesdays with Morrie" and its been really making me think. About things like the present, enjoying what I have, not wanting to buy into the culture of our society( and being glad I'm not the only one who thinks that way!) but especially about 'where am I?' and 'what am I doing?' and most importantly, AM I where I want to be, doing what I want to do, and if not, why?